If you’re looking to book a vacation, you know it’s about carving out time in your busy schedule, dodging work emails, and convincing your family that yes, a lakeside retreat is exactly what you all need. You can plan all the events, pack all the bags, and choose everything from where to eat to “how many pairs of underwear does my kid really need?”
But what about actually relaxing on your vacation?
If you’re the type who packs your itinerary tighter than a suitcase filled with last-minute panic, this guide is for you. Let’s talk about how to plan a REAL vacation. One where you return home feeling refreshed, not in need of another vacation to recover from the first one.
Here’s how to master the art of doing absolutely nothing
Plan for Activities and Relaxation
One of the biggest mistakes families make when planning a vacation is over-scheduling. Activities are important, but so is setting aside time to actually relax on your vacation.
The lake is packed with things to do—kayaking, paddleboarding, hiking, bonfires, golf—but remember that downtime is just as important as adventure. Build in time to just “be.” Let the kids explore without an agenda, sip coffee on the porch, or watch the sunset without feeling like you need to be doing something.
Embrace “free play.” That means letting go of the itinerary for an afternoon and letting the family decide what feels fun in the moment. Plus, if it’s important to you, make space for some alone time. Whether it’s a solo morning paddle or a quiet moment with a book, giving everyone a little space to breathe keeps the trip enjoyable for all.
Some of the best vacation memories happen when you aren’t racing against the clock. Give yourself the freedom to actually enjoy the moment.
Create a Low-Key Morning Routine
You know what’s not relaxing? Waking up to an alarm clock, rushing through breakfast, and frantically herding your family toward an “exciting” activity while they blink sleepily at you.
Mornings at the lake should be slow and easy, filled with coffee on the porch and the sound of loons calling across the water.
Give yourself some time to:
- Wake up naturally (or at least without an alarm that feels like a fire drill).
- Enjoy coffee or tea outside and enjoy the weather.
- Go for a quiet walk or stretch, just to remind your body that it is technically capable of movement.
- Resist the urge to “get going.” Just…exist for a little while.
Schedule Lazy Afternoons
Maybe you do like to get going right away in the morning. Some people like to get up and get some things done right away! If this sounds like you, let us introduce you to the ultimate vacation luxury: the afternoon nap.
Design your afternoons around the concept of slowing down. Whether it’s floating in the water, lounging in a hammock, or just staring at the horizon like an unpaid philosopher, this is the time to hit the brakes.
Some great ways to embrace a lazy afternoon include:
- Lounge by the lake: bonus points if you dip your feet in and immediately declare, “This is the life.”
- Read a book in the sun, even if you only make it three pages before dozing off.
- Go for a walk and find a nice spot to relax and enjoy the scenery.
Let time lose all meaning. If someone asks, “What time is it?” and you have no idea, congratulations, you’re relaxing.
Let the Water Do Its Magic
It’s scientifically proven that being near water makes people happier, calmer, and generally more pleasant to be around. (Which is why we fully support replacing corporate boardrooms with lakes, but that’s another discussion.)
The good news? You’re at a lake. Which means you should fully embrace its stress-melting powers. Go for a swim, even if it’s just floating. You can also try kayaking, boating, or paddleboarding. Whatever you choose to do, remember that t lake is here to ease whatever stress you brought with you—let it!
Eat Like You Mean It!
Vacation food is not the time for calorie counting or rushed meals. It’s the time for slow, satisfying, joy-filled eating. Try eating outside whenever possible. Savor your food; there’s no need to rush. Remember that it’s a meal with the family, friends, or a significant other, not a workday lunch break.
Leave Work (and Guilt) at Home
If you spend your vacation checking emails, worrying about deadlines, or feeling guilty about “doing nothing,” you’re doing it wrong. Give yourself permission to fully unplug. The world will keep turning without you for a few days.
Here’s how to actually disconnect:
- Set an out-of-office email. Then stick to it!
- Turn off notifications. Your phone should be used for photos of sunsets, not work pings.
- Remind yourself that rest is productive. Your brain needs downtime to function at its best.
- Relaxation isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity. You deserve it.
Slow Down, Enjoy, Repeat
At Sugar Lake Lodge, we specialize in the art of relaxation. Whether you want to paddle, float, golf, nap, or just sit and stare at the water, we’re here to make it easy for you. So come visit. Bring your book, your boat, and your favorite people. Let yourself slow down, breathe, and truly unwind.
Isn’t that what vacation is supposed to be about?
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